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'Ask the Learning Advisor -- Ideas for Raising Successful Children'

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[DEC. 17, 2004]  Q:  I am trying to finish holiday toy shopping for my children, but I am overwhelmed by all the expensive and fancy things I see in the stores during the holidays. How can I choose toys that will help my kids learn?

A: Children love to learn! And while children are home for the holidays you have time to encourage their natural curiosity. Each of your children has a passion. Find out what it is, stimulate it and build on it.

Does your daughter like listening to music on car trips, baking cookies with you, watching birds, or does she have a fascination for trains? How about encouraging her interest with a musical instrument, her very own set of measuring cups and spoons, binoculars, a family trip to a train museum? Best of all -- giving her a great book on what she's most curious about will encourage and motivate her to read, especially if she's a reluctant reader. Ask your librarian to help make some appropriate choices.

Does your son like trucks, dinosaurs, baseball? Or is he interested in history? Perfect timing! Chances are you'll have a couple of historians visiting you over the holidays. Have him ask Uncle Fred about Vietnam or ask Grampa about the first time he voted. Or invite an older neighbor over. Visit a natural history museum -- you'll have the place to yourselves on Christmas Eve! Again, best of all -- give him a great book on what he's most excited about.

Preschoolers love to find out about absolutely everything! They can be scientists or explorers. They want to know how things grow and how things work. When you're shopping for a toy, consider a science tool. They can learn a lot from ant farms or bug kits, books and magnifiers. Keep in mind, too, that the best toys for children are often the simplest ones. Why? Because children have to use their thinking skills to decide how they will play with them. We have all seen young children turn something as simple as a cardboard box into hours of creative fun. They can make up stories, pretend and build -- and come up with new ways to play with it the next time.

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Once gifts have been given and received, it's important to teach your children to say "thank you." Gather everyone together. Have lots of pens and pencils. Make sure you have stamps, a dictionary, and let your kids put on some music. Two or three heartfelt sentences are enough. Mention the gift by name and thank the giver for being so thoughtful. Is the gift a "clunker?" Here's where you teach your kids that it really is the thought that counts. "Thank you so much for thinking of me" covers nearly any gift.

Write your own thank-you notes. Remember, you are your children's most influential teacher.

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For more information about helping children learn or to submit your own question to The Learning Advisor, go to http://advisor.parent-institute.com. All questions will receive a prompt answer by e-mail.

© Copyright 2004, The Parent Institute.

Note: This feature follows the "advisor" spelling used by the source, although guidelines for news writing specify the spelling "adviser." 

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