Fat Shaming is one of last
socially accepted forms of discrimination, behavioral health expert
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[November 21, 2017]
While other forms of discrimination
have become taboo, it’s still common to hear negative comments
centered on a person’s weight, said Lindsay Roush, a behavioral
health consultant at Memorial Weight Loss & Wellness Center.
Roush calls fat shaming – also known as weight stigma, weight bias
or fat phobia – one of the last forms of discrimination that’s
socially acceptable. But that doesn’t mute its impact, she added,
noting that this type of bullying can lead to depression, isolation
and a loss of self-worth in its targets.
“It’s not that different from racial prejudice or homophobia,” Roush
Roush, who is a licensed clinical professional counselor, prefers
the term “fat shaming” over its less-direct alternatives. “I think
it needs to have a name that’s ‘in-your-face,’” she said.
Fat shaming has always been a problem. But the online anonymity of
social media has put a spotlight on the issue, with stories touting
celebrity weight gains or posts mocking those who are overweight
regularly going viral, she said.
Fat shaming isn’t limited to hurtful comments. In its subtler
manifestations, it can lead to missed promotions or job
opportunities due to managers’ stereotypical assumptions about an
overweight individual’s ability to perform on the job. It can even
make those affected reluctant to seek medical care if they fear a
Why do people feel comfortable shaming others for their weight?
Roush said it’s often rooted in fear and insecurity, feeding on a
culture that values thinness. Instances of fat shaming can even
cause people who don’t struggle with their weight to fear becoming
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Sometimes, fat shaming from friends and family comes wrapped in concern for the
person’s health. But “we need to think about the words we’re using,” Roush said.
She suggested approaching a loved one who is overweight with compassion and
understanding, leading with questions rather than making assumptions.
Ask that person if he or she has concerns about weight issues and their impact
on quality of life, setting up a conversation that centers on solutions rather
Roush shared the following tips for people who experience fat shaming:
If you feel comfortable and safe, speak up. Tell the person that these kinds of
comments are unacceptable.
If fat shaming has had an effect on your well-being and self-esteem, consider
talking with a counselor.
Practice body acceptance, learning to love yourself in the body that you’re in.
If you desire to make a change, get involved in programs such as those offered
by the Memorial Weight Loss & Wellness Center.
[Michael Leathers, Memorial Health