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And most divorces, he says, are not rash decisions made during fits of passion. "If you come home and catch your spouse in bed with someone
-- then, yeah, you might run and file for divorce," he says. "But that's not how most of these things occur. Most people take a long time to take action. So when the economy turns bad, the marriage may not be the best situation, but at least it's a known." Nickelson, who's seen that phenomenon in his own practice, is not worried about his business; he says his firm could survive for months simply on work that's waiting to get done. "But are we seeing a lot of new people flooding our doors? No." ___ Rabin is back in her spacious midtown office overlooking the Empire State Building, lit in purple this evening. After the morning appearance in Brooklyn, her afternoon had taken her to state Supreme Court in Manhattan, arguing on behalf of a client in commercial real estate, whose business has plummeted by some 75 percent this year. Such arguments are quickly becoming a major part of Rabin's daily schedule. "We have cases where we've been negotiating agreements for months," says the petite, red-haired attorney, a 49-year-old mother of two. "And suddenly it's all changed. We have to renegotiate, in the midst of negotiations." Rabin suspects that once the numbers do emerge, the financial crisis won't be seen to have lowered divorce rates. She remembers that after 9/11, "the divorce rate came right back up after only a few months." And, just like those who are liquidating stocks now to cut their losses, there are clients who prefer to take the divorce jump immediately. Who knows if things will get even worse? "They're figuring, maybe I should get divorced before it's ALL gone," she says. The days often bring difficult cases, like the woman who recently went back to work, as a real estate broker. "She was given paltry alimony because the judge said she'd be able to get back on her feet and support herself. So she goes into real estate. That's pure commission. What is she going to do now?" Rabin says she gets her greatest professional satisfaction from helping people like that, "people at the most vulnerable points of their lives." She does see a potential silver lining to the financial mess -- though one that would presumably cost her and her colleagues across the country some money. "People who would have started a real war -- well, maybe they won't start that war," she says. "Rather than spend it all on the lawyers, maybe they'll sit down and actually work out something that's fair."
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