"The majority is supporting the middle way," said Youdon Aukatsang, a member of the Tibetan parliament.
She said the stance will be reviewed at some point in the future if China persists in not granting the region autonomy.
"We want the option for self determination or independence to be open," she said.
The delegates also recommended that Tibetan leaders stop sending delegates to meet with Chinese officials "until we are convinced China is serious about negotiating and so far China is not serious," Sonamtopga, 57, who only goes by one name.
"We are not saying end the dialogue but the formal negotiations must stop now, at least until they invite us," Aukatsang said. "We did our best and the Chinese have not responded favorably."
Participants had said the meeting was unlikely to result in a dramatic break with the Dalai Lama's approach. A number of delegates called for taking a harder line against China, but the consensus seemed to hew toward a more conservative strategy.
As a result, the meeting has become a dress rehearsal in democracy as the Tibetans try to formulate a plan without the guidance of "His Holiness," a man they view as closer to a god than a mere leader.
The delegates "reaffirmed that they will follow the Dalai Lama in whatever path he deems most appropriate," said Tenzin Tethong, a former prime minister of the self-proclaimed Tibetan government-in-exile.
The Tibetan parliament, which convenes in March, must approve the agreements reached in the meeting, Tethong said.
The Dalai Lama was expected to address the delegates Sunday.
Many Tibetans said the opportunity to present their own opinions was a liberating experience that they hoped would lead to more open discussions.