Kix Brooks to honor fallen soldier on Memorial Day

[May 23, 2009]  NASHVILLE, Tenn. (AP) -- Kix Brooks of the hit duo Brooks & Dunn has visited the dusty military bases in Iraq and Kuwait, seen the armored vehicles and the big transport planes and talked with the men and women in uniform.

None of it left as deep of an impression on him, though, as a letter he received from a friend of Cpl. Jessica Ellis, a medic with the 101st Airborne Division at Fort Campbell, Ky.

Brooks met Ellis while performing for the troops in Iraq last year. She asked him about being a country star; he asked her about being a medic.

They spoke five or 10 minutes, had their picture taken together and that was that - until the letter arrived.

"I opened the envelope and pulled out the picture (of the two of them together), and thought 'Oh, I remember that smile,' Brooks recalled.

But as he read, he went cold. The young woman from Bend, Ore., was killed when her vehicle struck an explosive device in May 2008. The blast wounded three other soldiers traveling with her.

"It made me sick in the stomach to think about a parent having to get this kind of news," said Brooks, the father of two children.

Suddenly, the war felt more real to him than it had before.

"When you're over in Iraq and especially when you're visiting with soldiers and you're doing shows, you get a little disconnect. You realize you're in a war zone, but when you're backstage and especially with these nurses and Jessica in particular who was just like any fun-loving 23-year-old girl and who looked like a college kid ... it didn't even seem real."

The letter explained how much Ellis loved country music and how much she enjoyed meeting him and asked if he would write to her family.

Of course, Brooks wanted to tell her parents how sorry he was and how proud they should be, but he hesitated.

"I had no idea how her parents felt about it. People react differently, so I didn't want to say the wrong thing or do the wrong thing not knowing their emotions."

He carried the letter in his briefcase awhile, uncertain what to do about it, until finally he decided to send them an e-mail.

"They responded, and after many e-mails I think I finally got a handle on where their emotions were," he said. "They were obviously very proud of their daughter."

Brooks didn't stop there. Last month, he taped a special Memorial Day extension of his weekly radio show, "American Country Countdown," at Fort Campbell, where he talked with Ellis' friends.

The program, "A Salute to America's Heroes," airs over the holiday weekend on about 125 stations as well as the Armed Forces Radio Network.

At the family's request, the show will honor all service men and women, not just Ellis.

"They felt like, in the spirit of Jessica's memory, she was so much of a team player that they didn't feel like it would be serving her memory to single her out," Brooks explained.

[Associated Press; By JOHN GEROME]

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