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Mere acceptance of Muslims in the U.S. is not Rauf's goal. "It is not enough for me that you tolerate me," he explained to an audience in Jakarta last month. "I want you to love me." The Cordoba Initiative is a pro-Western organization that sent election monitors last spring to Sudan, and Rauf has spent much of his life preaching religious tolerance and the need for people of different faiths to work together. Rauf and Khan have kept their offices for years in the Interchurch Center, a Manhattan office tower packed with Christian religious agencies that was conceived as a space where different denominations could mingle and collaborate. His social friends are as likely to be Jewish or Christian as they are Muslim. The Very Rev. James Morton, retired dean of the Cathedral of St. John the Divine, recalled how his family, Rauf, Khan and a rabbi once spent 10 days together on a Mediterranean cruise. "We went from Spain to North Africa," the Episcopal priest said
-- a crossing of a historic border and crossroads between the Islamic and Christian worlds. "It was a wonderful trip." Rauf and Khan said they would prefer to spend their time talking about issues like gender equity and women's rights within Islam. Khan leads, among other things, an empowerment group that favors a more visible role for women in Muslim cultural, religious and judicial institutions. The couple say they were shocked by the emotional nature of the opposition to the Islamic center project, and regret they did not anticipate the situation ahead of time. Yet they are also insistent that moving the facility to another location would be a mistake. The couple's courtship of 9/11 families appears to be aimed at potentially influential fence-sitters in the debate over the center, rather than ardent critics, although Khan also recently participated in a public panel discussion with Jim Riches, a former New York City deputy fire chief whose son, Jimmy, was killed at the trade center. "It was a true dialogue," Khan said of her appearance with Riches. "When he was speaking about his pain, I had tears in my eyes." She said the main point she wanted to get across during their talk was that the 9/11 attacks were an epic tragedy for Muslims, too
-- compounded by fears of a backlash and a sense that they had been irreparably alienated from their countrymen. "The fact that we were not allowed to participate in this tragedy, that we were shut out ... that was very traumatic for the community," she said. Establishing a presence so close to ground zero, she said, would send a powerful message: "We stand for peace, and peace where it matters the most." And if the structure never gets built, due to financial problems or political difficulties? "It certainly matters, but it will not be an impediment," Rauf said. His work will continue, although, as Khan added, "It is a lot easier to bring people together in bricks and mortar."
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