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One of the moms, introduced to the Beaver Island group through video conference, thanked Bass for sending her a card and a prayer. "I read it every day," the woman, who has 11- and 16-year-old children, told Bass. "I'm in it for the long term fight. I'm prayin' hard, too." "That's what you do," Bass said, as she grabbed a tissue to dab her eyes. Diane Gorkiewicz, who began the Charlevoix "Circle of Strength" six years ago, marvels at the intimacy that has developed so quickly between her group and the islanders. "The only thing you're missing are all the hugs and stuff," Gorkiewicz told the islanders during a recent video conference. "And the food," Bass said, teasing the Charlevoix group that they need to share the treats they bring to their meetings. ___ Joe and Phyllis Moore understand the dynamic. Earlier this year, the longtime islanders were able to "attend" their youngest granddaughter's first birthday party via Skype. Guests at the party in Washington state sat at a computer to introduce themselves. The Moores saw the cake. They gave real-time wishes to the birthday girl. "Just thinking about it, it almost brings tears to my eyes," Joe Moore says.
It's not ideal, but the best they can do -- better than they could've hoped for, really. The hard reality is that the cost of getting off the island can be prohibitive. Most islanders have to "wear many hats" just to get by, Moore says. In addition to his computer work, he's one of the island medics and also runs a local website that provides video footage of township meetings, as well as the school's soccer and volleyball games. Phyllis Moore is now the assistant librarian, but when she moved back to the island after college, she and Joe ran a vacation lodge while he did his student teaching. "Like most graduates, I was going to get off this rock and never look back," says Phyllis Moore, now 62. "And look where I am now." Many young people who live here say technology -- social networking and their cell phones included
-- make life on the island better for them, too. But in the end, they face the same dilemma as everyone else: How do you make a living here? And what if there's really no place for the kind of work you want to do? Brontae Cole, a 17-year-old high school senior, will be heading to college next year and wants to become a homicide detective. "There's one cop here, two in the summer if we get lucky," Cole says. She grins. "And not a lot of dead people." Jewell Gillespie-Cushman, a 14-year-old freshman, also wonders where he'll land. His late grandfather, an island icon for whom he was named, was born on Beaver Island and lived here his entire life. Gillespie-Cushman isn't sure he could do the same, even with more contact with the outside world than his grandpa had. "I'm still debating whether to stay here, or move over there," he says. ___ Like Muggs Bass, though, a growing number of people want to find a way ONTO Beaver Island
-- many of them among the thousands who visit each summer and would like to make it home. For many of them, technology is the key. Jeff Stone and his wife, Sarah Rohner, were able to start spending more time on the island in 2006, when a satellite-based service began offering an Internet connection that was about two-thirds as fast as the newest service, and much faster than the sluggish dial-up service that had been the only option. The satellite option enabled Stone to quit his real estate job in the Chicago area to start a website design business that he and his wife run from the island much of the year, though not without some initial glitches. He recalls how snow from a huge storm covered their satellite dish, cutting off their Internet service just as they were about to launch their site. "We ended up going out in the backyard and throwing snowballs at the dish," he says. That knocked off enough snow to get the Internet working, and they were back in business. But it's not always that easy, or quick. Laurel Vietzen, a college professor, also from the Chicago area, who now spends several months a year on the island, remembers a violent summer thunderstorm two years ago that left much of the island without Internet and phones. "We had a daughter at the University of Iowa and we were hearing about terrible flooding in Iowa City," she says. "It was three days before we could reach her!" Now that Internet service on the island is more reliable, many islanders say cell phone service is the big hurdle. One mobile provider's service works well here, though only on the upper third of the island
-- and outages happen more frequently than most would like. Even those who reap the benefits of technology feel torn, though. They worry that it infringes on one of the very things they love about the island
-- its inherent, blissful peacefulness. Technology is, at once, their blessing and their curse. On a summer night, it's not unusual to see more than a dozen people sitting outside the library's memorial garden, on picnic tables and in their cars, tapping into the free wireless that's left on 24 hours a day. At the same time, islanders and summer residents alike regularly complain about all the people who now walk around the main streets of St. James, staring at a smart phone screen or iPad instead of their beautiful surroundings. "The technology is wonderful, but...," Phyllis Moore says. She raises her eyebrows, noting how, on a nice day, she isn't opposed to kicking kids out of the library after they reach their 30-minute time limit on the computers there. Meanwhile, it used to be the joke that, by St. Patrick's Day, anyone who lived here year-round couldn't stand the sight of anyone else. In many ways, communicating with the outside world helps with that, but not always. "I don't think it's eliminated cabin fever or getting at each other's throats," Joe Moore says, chuckling. "Sometimes, I think it makes it worse because they can communicate more and get on each others' nerves even more." ___ Muggs Bass knows about the squabbles and the way a rumor can take on a life of its own, computer or no computer. She wasn't too happy, for instance, when she heard that some islanders were calling her cancer "inoperable." She didn't like the sound of it
-- wished they'd just ask her directly. But that was nothing, she says, compared with the support she's gotten from her tiny island community. "We joke. We kid. We take care of each other," she says. "I can't imagine living anyplace else." When she got her latest diagnosis, islanders organized a "50/50 raffle" for her, where the winner is supposed to take half the donations. Instead, the winner gave his portion to Bass, a common outcome on Beaver Island. All up, she received nearly $9,000 to help with flights to the mainland and other expenses related to her illness. "You talk about emotional," Bass says, tearing up again. She recalls sitting down after that to pray and, as she might say, have a chat with God. "I thanked Him, and thanked Him, and thanked Him. I was so grateful that I was able to come back and live here, and for holding me up at this time in my life," she says. The support group and her new friends on the mainland are part of that. For her, technology -- at least her little slice of it -- has allowed the best of both worlds. ___ Online: Beaver Island site and webcams: http://www.beaverisland.org/
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