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The remaining share of households without stay-at-home parents
-- the majority of U.S. families -- are cases in which both parents work full time while their children attend school or day care or are watched by nannies or grandparents, or in which fathers work full time while the mothers work part time and care for children part time. "There's still a pervasive belief that men can't care for children as well as women can, reinforcing the father-as-breadwinner ideology," said Latshaw, whose research is being published next month in the peer-reviewed journal "Fathering." She is urging census to expand its definition to highlight the growing numbers, which she believes will encourage wider use of paternity leave and other family-friendly policies. The new "Mr. Moms" include Todd Krater, 38, of Lakemoor, Ill., a Chicago suburb. Krater has been a self-described stay-at-home dad for the past seven years to his three sons after his wife, who earned a master's business degree, began to flourish in her career as a software specialist. Krater said he found it difficult adjusting at first and got little support from other mothers who treated him as an outcast at school functions. He eventually started writing a blog, "A Man Among Mommies," to encourage other fathers to take a larger role in child care and says he now revels in seeing more dads at the park, library and school events. "What was once an uncommon sight of a dad with the kids during the day is becoming more and more prevalent," said Krater, who is now studying part time to become a registered nurse. "But many still feel the pressure of gender roles and feel if they don't make money they are somehow less of a man." The census numbers come from the government's Current Population Survey as of March 2010. Among other findings: -Among adults 25 and older, women are more likely than men to have finished high school, 87.6 percent to 86.6 percent. -Broken down by race and ethnicity, 52 percent of Asian-Americans had at least a bachelor's degree. That's compared with 33 percent for non-Hispanic whites, 20 percent for blacks and 14 percent for Hispanics. -Thirty percent of foreign-born residents in the U.S. had less than a high school diploma, compared with 10 percent of U.S.-born residents and 19 percent of naturalized citizens. At the same time, the foreign-born population was just as likely as U.S.-born residents to have at least a bachelor's degree, at roughly 30 percent. Jeremy Adam Smith, author of the 2009 book "The Daddy Shift: How Stay-at-Home Dads, Breadwinning Moms and Shared Parenting are Transforming the American Family," described a cultural shift as women began to surpass men in college enrollment in the 1980s. The 1983 movie, "Mr. Mom," openly broached the idea that out-of-work fathers can contribute to families as stay-at-home dads, allowing more men to be accepting of the role in subsequent recessions, he said. "Over the long term, the numbers are just going to keep going up," Smith said. ___ Online:
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