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When Dena is asked about her father's gifts, she, like Feinstein, recounts his brilliance in many areas, like his penchant for conducting. And she also notes his passion for helping others, becoming UNICEF's first celebrity ambassador and setting the modern-day model for today's charitable stars. But she also likes to talk about a side not seen by his fans: his skill in the kitchen (he could make an amazing key lime pie, apparently), his intolerance for lateness, his refusal to put himself on a pedestal because of his fame: "He wasn't a snob. And he gave as much attention to a royal as he would to the milkman." Dena recalls her father as tender, warm, and the "least judgmental person in my life. "What he wanted was that I was a full human being, and however I got there, that was OK with him," she said, tearing up. "It's so hard, because it just makes me miss him so much." Next month, the Museum of Moving Image in Queens, N.Y., will hold a gala tribute to Kaye, and later, the New York Pops will celebrate their 30th anniversary with a concert that will in part honor Kaye. Conductor Steven Reineke said the Pops plan to have a lot of young people in the audience so they can learn more about Kaye: "(We want to) keep the legacy of some of these great performers alive." Even though Kaye spent her entire life with her father, she says that she has benefited from the effort to have the public rediscover her father. "You don't realize when someone dies until very much later that they're gone forever, and I feel, I must say, even though this is very emotional for me, I've been living with my father and mother in a way in the past year that I haven't done for my whole life," she said, "and it's wonderful to see him and to listen to him." ___ Online:
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