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Some of the book's best advice is simple, yet routinely neglected by many families. Feiler says their weekly family meetings
-- modeled after sit-downs at many giant companies -- became the "single most impactful idea they introduced since their kids were born." His family also created a mission statement to sum up their priorities, goals and dreams, and posted it in a visible spot at home. The chapter heading on sports, titled "Shut Up and Cheer," says it all. Examining this country's obsession with kids' sports, Feiler discusses the importance of parents staying neutral and supportive, suggesting that controlling, emotional parents can zap all the joy and life lessons out of sports. Feiler offers practical solutions that can work for any family, regardless of the age or gender of the parents or kids. But he isn't offering a magic bullet for happiness. "I was determined not to force things I learned into some catchy list you absolutely must do to have a happy family. There is no such list ... no single formula." His main point is to pay attention to family practices and customs, continue to discuss them and take proactive steps to make necessary changes when something's not working. It's up to every family to uncover its own secrets of what makes them thrive.
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