2016 Home for the Holiday
"Making Memories"

Making memories through giving
By Nila Smith

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On the twelfth day of Christmas
My true love sent to me:
12 Drummers Drumming
Eleven Pipers Piping
Ten Lords a Leaping
Nine Ladies Dancing
Eight Maids a Milking
Seven Swans a Swimming
Six Geese a Laying
Five Golden Rings
Four Calling Birds
Three French Hens
Two Turtle Doves
And a Partridge in a Pear Tree

[December 03, 2016]  As Christmas time approaches, for many children it becomes a time of year of making lists, visiting Santa, and imagining all the wonderful gifts that will be under the tree on Christmas morning. For those children, it is a wonderful time of year, filled with great expectations and excitement.

However, for some families, the season may contain some uncertainty. Will there be enough money to pay the rent? Will we have enough food to last through the kids’ Christmas vacation? How can we impress upon our children that they are loved when they do not receive the ‘must have” toy or game of the season?

As we look at the Christmas season, we see that much of it becomes about getting, and less about giving each year. Even our holiday music brings to mind what we may get. In the song the 12 Days of Christmas, it is all about what “my true love gave to me.” Nothing is said about what the “me” in the song gave back.

At Christmas time, we as parents have a perfect opportunity to impress upon our young ones that Christmas can and should be about giving. Remember the story of the Magi, who brought gifts to the Christ child, or the song of “Good King Wenceslas” who prepared a feast for a poor man stranded in the winter cold. The Magi knew that the Christ Child was ultimately a gift to all mankind from the Heavenly Father. But they did not know him personally. Though he was a stranger, they came bearing gifts. And, King Wenceslas in the song, did not know the name of the man outside his window, he only knew that the stranger was cold and hungry and in need of a gift that the King had the ability to provide.

According to Rick Releford at the Lincoln/Logan County Food Pantry, there are approximately 550 households that are in need of food each month. Within those households, there are approximately 2,000 people, and about 740 of them are children. At Christmas time, the demand does increase in no small part due to school-aged children on break between Christmas and the New Year as they do not have access to school breakfast and lunch programs.

Releford says that the food pantry is always in need of donations, and is always grateful for the blessings they receive from the community. Food products are welcome, and so are cash donations. He explained that the pantry has access to products from the Central Illinois Food bank in Springfield, and can purchase food products for a mere 19 to 20-cents per pound, which is a cost much lower than what the consumer can purchase food in any retail store in the area.

This year, maybe it is time to create a new family tradition, and a new memory of celebrating Christmas, by giving instead of getting.

Start by bringing everyone together and talking about the need for food in the world, and what we as individuals can do to help. It doesn’t have to be a big grand gesture, small things add up and can mean a lot to a family who is struggling to make ends meet every day of the year, but especially at Christmas.

Bearing in mind the 12 days of Christmas, perhaps choose 12 items that you can give to a local food pantry such as the Lincoln/Logan County Food Pantry.

Let the kids talk about foods that they like to eat, and bear in mind that there will be a need for kid-friendly foods in the week after Christmas.

Then, create a "12 Days of Christmas" box where each day, for 12 days, your family can deposit an item to be given to the food pantry. Perhaps let the kids help with decorating the box. Add Christmas wrapping paper or bows or both.

Now, it is time to make a list, what will you put in your box? Releford made an important point, saying that it is good to have kid-friendly foods. He was speaking specifically about cereal, which he says in always in high demand. Even so, it brings to light an important point. We do want to see folks eat healthy, but if you give foods that a kid won’t eat, what good does it do?

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If you have kids helping with this project, let them offer up some suggestions, with your guidance of course. Foods kids like to eat like peanut butter, or snack crackers can be a part of the donation. Releford said that the pantry would take all kinds of foods from bread to meats to fresh fruits and veggies. The one thing they discourage is products packaged in glass containers.

Choose 12 items, one for each of the 12 Days of Christmas. Items such as bread, peanut butter, individual instant oatmeal, single serving microwaveable mac and cheese, snack crackers, and fresh fruits that keep well such as apples. Celery is a long-keeping fresh veggie that a lot of kids like with peanut butter. Individually boxed raisins, cold cereal, juice boxes, pudding or jello cups, and also fruit cups are things that are easy for kids or the babysitter to fix while parents are at work.

Releford said that baking supplies are also a nice thing to add this time of year. The food pantry will take items such as cookie mixes, brown sugar, powdered sugar, flour, regular sugar, and more.

The food box doesn’t necessarily have to be aimed at kids. There are several seniors who can benefit from this type of gift as well. For those folks, canned veggies and canned fruit can be a good gift, along with canned soups and canned juices.

Other nice things to add might be items that could be used to prepare a Christmas dinner. Creamy mushroom soup, canned green beans, and French fried onions are all that is needed for a traditional green bean casserole. Canned yams, or even fresh sweet potatoes, brown sugar, and a bag of marshmallows will make up another holiday dish popular in many households.

And finally, add a bit of holiday joy with a box of candy canes and a Christmas Card.

As you and your family go through the process, each day adding an item to the box from the shopping list, you may begin to see the joy of giving, the happiness that comes from opening your heart and thinking about what you can do for someone else to make another family holiday better and brighter than it might otherwise have been.

Then, when next year comes around, you may remember that time you spent together - planning, thinking, decorating, and delivering the special gift you created for a stranger.

You can confer on the needs at the pantry by calling 217-732-6644. On Christmas week, the Lincoln/Logan County Food Pantry will be open on Tuesday morning from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. and Thursday afternoon from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m. The pantry is located at 125 N. Logan Street in Lincoln.

 

Read all the articles in our new
2016 Home for the Holiday magazine

Title
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The season of making memories is upon us 4
Bringing men into the kitchen 5
Loving the holidays 8
Memories of that first snowfall of the season 13
Being grateful at the holidays 17
Bringing the family together for the holidays 21
Shop Logan County First 25
Making memories through giving 32
The spirit of the holidays in the Civil War era 36

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