A young woman makes COVID-19 warning her dad's final gift to the world
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[May 22, 2020]
By Andrew Kelly and Clare Baldwin
NEW YORK (Reuters) - It could be any one of
us. In this case it was Jose Holguin. He was 50.
When he died on April 28, his death was just a speck in a giant storm of
numbers defining the global COVID-19 pandemic. To the world, he was just
another number added to the tally recited daily by governments and news
organizations.
To his family, he was the teenager who struck out for the United States
from the Dominican Republic to make their lives better. He worked at a
grocery store, at a barber shop, and as a handyman. He used the money he
earned to rebuild his mother's home, and his children went to visit her
nearly every summer.
As the United States opens up, Jose's family agreed to be photographed
and interviewed because they thought their gut-wrenching reality might
help save lives.
"I feel like some people are failing to understand that this is
serious," said his daughter, Jessica Holguin, 25. "This is real. It's
literally killing people. It's killing our communities, our loved ones,
our friends, our family members, moms, dads, brothers, sisters."
"Don't take your life for granted. Wear your masks," said Jessica. "Take
precautions."
It's a strange thing to let a journalist document your grief. It means
that as you crumple on the floor next to your dad's casket and pray,
someone's snapping a picture. It means that when your dad dies, you tell
a stranger about what he left unfinished.
Jessica said she felt a duty to speak out. Jose's other daughter agreed
to pictures but wasn't ready to talk about how she felt.
The United States is expected to pass a toll of 100,000 deaths from the
coronavirus in coming days. About a third of those have been in New York
state. Its biggest city - New York City - has broken its data down by
race and ethnicity.
As a Latino, Jose was 40 percent more likely to catch COVID-19 as his
white countrymen, that data shows. He was more than twice as likely to
die. The infection and death rates are similarly grim for
African-Americans.
City officials say that's because these groups hold more of the
low-paid, essential jobs that cannot be done remotely, are more likely
to live in crowded apartments, and are more likely to have underlying
health conditions because of existing healthcare inequalities.
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Jessica Holguin, 25, reacts as she kneels beside the body of her
father Jose Holguin, 50, originally from the Dominican Republic and
who died of complications related to the coronavirus disease
(COVID-19) during a viewing service held for him at International
Funeral & Cremation Services in the Harlem neighborhood of
Manhattan, New York City, U.S., May 16, 2020. Picture taken May 16,
2020. REUTERS/Andrew Kelly
LEFT BEHIND
Just before dawn on Easter, Jose wasn't feeling well. He had cancer
so his partner of a decade and a half rushed him to the hospital.
He tested positive for the coronavirus, then his heart stopped -
twice. At least one of those times he was without oxygen to the
brain for 15 minutes. As hospital staff fought to revive him, his
ribs broke. He was intubated and put on life support.
When it became clear he was unlikely to survive, New York
Presbyterian said three family members could have five minutes each
to say goodbye. The hospital gave them yellow suits with gloves,
hairnets, masks and face shields.
"It was a little bit longer than five minutes because they
understood. We just broke down crying," said Jessica. "I just
remember my mask being full of tears."
Jose had wanted to be buried where he was born but the family didn't
have the money to ship his body back to the Dominican Republic. His
partner didn't speak English so all of the arrangements ran through
his daughters.
As sick as he was, Jessica never actually expected Jose to die.
He was loud and happy. He liked music. Sometimes he would drink beer
and dance bachata. His family would joke that his belly was so big
that once it entered a room, it would take another ten minutes for
the rest of his body to follow.
It was weird that his viewing was so silent, said Jessica. It was
weird that her dead dad said absolutely nothing.
It took a while for her and her sister to screw up the courage to
look at him in the casket. They started at the back of the chapel
and slowly inched their way forward. It took an hour of the two-hour
viewing for them to make it to the front row of chairs, and then
finally forward. They wailed.
(Reporting by Andrew Kelly and Clare Baldwin, Editing by Rosalba
O'Brien)
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