The Machiavellian way: How 'The Prince' can help women at work
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[May 03, 2022] By
Chris Taylor
NEW YORK (Reuters) - When it comes to the
status of women in the workplace, there are decades of talk and not
enough action. The gender pay gap is still enormous, and CEOs are still
overwhelmingly male, as are corporate boards.
Stacey Vanek Smith says we should look to an unlikely source to help
solve this stubborn problem: Niccolo Machiavelli.
Most people remember the Renaissance-era Italian statesman from his
iconic book on high-school reading lists, “The Prince.” But Smith, the
NPR host and author of the new book “Machiavelli for Women,” says his
insights about power and survival can be just as critical for navigating
the modern workplace.
“I hated that book back in college, but when I re-read it, it helped me
understand why the numbers (of women in leadership positions) have been
stuck for so long," says Smith, co-host of NPR’s The Indicator from
Planet Money. "It offers real suggestions and effective advice about how
to gain power and hold onto it, even though it’s 500 years old.”
To be sure, the connotations of the name Machiavelli are quite negative
and brutal. His advice to Florence’s ruler Lorenzo de Medici derived
from the historical context of regions constantly warring with each
other, where the prospect of being taken over and wiped out by rivals
was a very real possibility.
If you can get past the sometimes harrowing nature of his counsel, these
clear-eyed strategic principles – about how to evaluate threats,
overcome obstacles and survive in positions of leadership – can be
helpful tools in your arsenal.
ARM YOURSELF WITH INFORMATION
Machiavelli may not have been a military warrior, but as a diplomat he
did place a high value on another power source – information. The more
you have of it, the more you can use it to advance your career.
“That’s the ultimate advice, especially for women or marginalized
workers,” Smith says. “Find out what the typical salary range is for the
position, what your colleagues are paid, and how much experience they
have. Having those facts in a game changer, because most success in
negotiating comes before you even open your mouth.”
ASK FOR MORE
Part of what is holding women back in the workplace is systemic, like
discriminatory attitudes. But women also do not advocate for themselves
as forcefully as men do. If you’re not even asking for what you want in
the first place, then any negotiation is dead on arrival.
“Men ask for raises and promotions at five times the rate that women
do,” Smith says. “There is so much stuff that is out of your hands – but
this is a significant part of the equation that you do have control over
as an individual.”
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The female gender symbol is seen displayed on the Ernst and Young
Building on International Women's Day in Times Square in New York
City, New York, U.S., March 8, 2018. REUTERS/Elizabeth Shafiroff
DEMONSTRATE 'CRAZY CONFIDENCE'
Even more than actual competence, the best predictor of career success is
confidence, Smith says. It’s free – but it’s definitely a skill you have to
develop, since it may not come naturally.
Try to be a little like James Spader’s Robert California character from the
sitcom “The Office,” Smith advises – who despite little relevant experience,
applies at Dunder Mifflin and ends up being appointed CEO of the entire company
within days, purely thanks to his extreme confidence.
NEGOTIATE WITH A NEW MINDSET
The reason why some women shy away from asking for raises and promotions, Smith
says, is that such situations are often perceived as hyper-aggressive, zero-sum
games.
Instead, reframe such discussions as a win-win: It is obviously in the company’s
interests that you feel valued and produce at your highest level, so work
together to figure out how to make that happen.
“This is tricky for women, because there can be a backlash to too much
aggression,” says Smith. “So when I started to think about negotiations in a
more collaborative way, that was the most useful shift in mindset for me.”
SEIZE THE MOMENT
The pandemic has been horrible so many ways, but it also shifted the power
dynamic of the modern workplace: It is now much more acceptable to work remotely
and to be dealing with home and family issues at the same time.
Previously, that lack of flexibility kept some women out of leadership
positions, so now that work-from-home is the new reality for many, there are new
pathways to corporate power, Smith says.
“There is a new openness about how work gets done,” she says. “I’ve never seen a
moment where workers have more power than they do right now.”
(Editing by Lauren Young and Lisa Shumaker; Follow us @ReutersMoney or at
http://www.reuters.com/finance/personal-finance.)
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