Cherishing Love – Celebrating Valentine’s Day with Alzheimer’s

 

[February 14, 2024] 

Valentine’s Day is a time for celebrating love and connection, but for individuals living
with Alzheimer’s disease and their caregivers, it can bring a mix of emotions and
challenges. Alzheimer’s is a progressive neurodegenerative disorder that affects
memory, cognition, and behavior, making it difficult for those affected to remember or
fully engage in holiday traditions. However, with understanding, patience, and creativity,
Valentine’s Day can still be a meaningful and enjoyable occasion for both the individual
with Alzheimer’s and their loved ones.

Caregivers play a crucial role in ensuring that their loved one with Alzheimer’s feels
valued and included on Valentine’s Day. Creating familiar and comforting experiences
can help evoke positive emotions and memories. This could involve listening to music
from their past, looking through old photo albums, or engaging in activities they enjoy,
such as baking cookies or taking a leisurely walk.

For couples navigating Alzheimer’s together, Valentine’s Day can serve as a reminder
of the enduring strength of their bond. While the progression of the disease may alter
the dynamics of their relationship, the love and companionship they share remain
unchanged. Simple gestures of affection, such as holding hands, sharing a hug, or
exchanging heartfelt words, can foster a sense of connection and intimacy, even in the
face of memory loss.

” Adapting Valentine’s Day traditions to accommodate the needs of someone with
Alzheimer’s is key to making the day enjoyable for everyone involved. Simplifying
activities, minimizing distractions, and maintaining a calm and structured environment
can help reduce stress and anxiety for individuals with Alzheimer’s. Caregivers may
also consider incorporating sensory experiences, such as aromatherapy or gentle
touch, to enhance their loved one’s sensory stimulation and emotional well-being,” said
Hadi Finerty, Sr Manager of Education and Community Volunteers, Alzheimer’s
Association Illinois Chapter

In some cases, celebrating Valentine’s Day with Alzheimer’s may involve embracing the
present moment and finding joy in the little things. Whether it’s sharing a heartfelt
conversation, watching a favorite movie together, or simply enjoying a quiet moment of
companionship, the true essence of Valentine’s Day lies in the love and connection
shared between two people.

It’s important for caregivers to practice self-care and seek support from friends, family,
or support groups, especially during holidays like Valentine’s Day. Taking breaks,
practicing mindfulness, and acknowledging their own emotions can help caregivers
navigate the challenges of caregiving with compassion and resilience.

Ultimately, while Alzheimer’s may present unique challenges on Valentine’s Day, it also
provides an opportunity to celebrate love in its purest form – a love that transcends
memories and endures through the highs and lows of life’s journey. By embracing each
moment with patience, understanding, and unconditional love, Valentine’s Day can be a
cherished occasion for individuals living with Alzheimer’s and their caregivers alike.

The Alzheimer’s Association is available with information and support for families as
they navigate the disease and related research. For more information, visit alz.org or
call the 24/7 Helpline at 800.272.3900.

[Lionel Martin
Alzheimer's Association, Illinois Chapter]