Many forget the damage done by diseases like whooping cough, measles and
rubella. Not these families
[June 30, 2025]
By LAURA UNGAR
SIOUX FALLS, S.D. (AP) — In the time before widespread vaccination,
death often came early.
Devastating infectious diseases ran rampant in America, killing millions
of children and leaving others with lifelong health problems. These
illnesses were the main reason why nearly one in five children in 1900
never made it to their fifth birthday.
Over the next century, vaccines virtually wiped out long-feared scourges
like polio and measles and drastically reduced the toll of many others.
Today, however, some preventable, contagious diseases are making a
comeback as vaccine hesitancy pushes immunization rates down. And
well-established vaccines are facing suspicion even from public
officials, with Robert F. Kennedy Jr., a longtime anti-vaccine activist,
running the federal health department.
“This concern, this hesitancy, these questions about vaccines are a
consequence of the great success of the vaccines – because they
eliminated the diseases,” said Dr. William Schaffner, an infectious
disease expert at Vanderbilt University Medical Center. “If you’re not
familiar with the disease, you don’t respect or even fear it. And
therefore you don’t value the vaccine.”
Anti-vaccine activists even portray the shots as a threat, focusing on
the rare risk of side effects while ignoring the far larger risks posed
by the diseases themselves — and years of real-world data that experts
say proves the vaccines are safe.
Some Americans know the reality of these preventable diseases all too
well. For them, news of measles outbreaks and rising whooping cough
cases brings back terrible memories of lives forever changed – and a
longing to spare others from similar pain.

Getting rubella while pregnant shaped two lives
With a mother’s practiced, guiding hand, 80-year-old Janith Farnham
helped steer her 60-year-old daughter’s walker through a Sioux Falls art
center. They stopped at a painting of a cow wearing a hat.
Janith pointed to the hat, then to her daughter Jacque’s Minnesota Twins
cap. Jacque did the same.
“That’s so funny!” Janith said, leaning in close to say the words in
sign language too.
Jacque was born with congenital rubella syndrome, which can cause a host
of issues including hearing impairment, eye problems, heart defects and
intellectual disabilities. There was no vaccine against rubella back
then, and Janith contracted the viral illness very early in the
pregnancy, when she had up to a 90% chance of giving birth to a baby
with the syndrome.
Janith recalled knowing “things weren’t right” almost immediately. The
baby wouldn’t respond to sounds or look at anything but lights. She
didn’t like to be held close. Her tiny heart sounded like it purred –
evidence of a problem that required surgery at four months old.
Janith did all she could to help Jacque thrive, sending her to the
Colorado School for the Deaf and the Blind and using skills she honed as
a special education teacher. She and other parents of children with the
syndrome shared insights in a support group.
Meanwhile, the condition kept taking its toll. As a young adult, Jacque
developed diabetes, glaucoma and autistic behaviors. Eventually,
arthritis set in.
Today, Jacque lives in an adult residential home a short drive from
Janith's place. Above her bed is a net overflowing with stuffed animals.
On a headboard shelf are photo books Janith created, filled with
memories like birthday parties and trips to Mount Rushmore.
Jacque’s days typically begin with an insulin shot and breakfast before
she heads off to a day program. She gets together with her mom four or
five days a week. They often hang out at Janith’s townhome, where Jacque
has another bedroom decorated with her own artwork and quilts Janith
sewed for her. Jacque loves playing with Janith’s dog, watching sports
on television and looking up things on her iPad.

Janith marvels at Jacque’s sense of humor, gratefulness, curiosity and
affectionate nature despite all she’s endured. Jacque is generous with
kisses and often signs “double I love yous” to family, friends and new
people she meets.
“When you live through so much pain and so much difficulty and so much
challenge, sometimes I think: Well, she doesn’t know any different,”
Janith said.
Given what her family has been through, Janith believes younger people
are being selfish if they choose not to get their children the MMR shot
against measles, mumps and rubella.
“It’s more than frustrating. I mean, I get angry inside,” she said. “I
know what can happen, and I just don’t want anybody else to go through
this.”
Delaying the measles vaccine can be deadly
More than half a century has passed, but Patricia Tobin still vividly
recalls getting home from work, opening the car door and hearing her
mother scream. Inside the house, her little sister Karen lay unconscious
on the bathroom floor.
It was 1970, and Karen was 6. She’d contracted measles shortly after
Easter. While an early vaccine was available, it wasn’t required for
school in Miami where they lived. Karen’s doctor discussed immunizing
the first grader, but their mother didn't share his sense of urgency.
“It's not that she was against it," Tobin said. "She just thought there
was time.”
Then came a measles outbreak. Karen – who Tobin described as a “very
endearing, sweet child” who would walk around the house singing –
quickly became very sick. The afternoon she collapsed in the bathroom,
Tobin, then 19, called the ambulance. Karen never regained
consciousness.
“She immediately went into a coma and she died of encephalitis,” said
Tobin, who stayed at her bedside in the hospital. “We never did get to
speak to her again.”

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Jacque Farnham, left, looks at a book with her mother, Janith, in
the Visual Arts Center at the Washington Pavilion in Sioux Falls,
S.D., on May 20, 2025. (AP Photo/Shelby Lum)
 Today, all states require that
children get certain vaccines to attend school. But a growing number
of people are making use of exemptions allowed for medical,
religious or philosophical reasons. Vanderbilt’s Schaffner said
fading memories of measles outbreaks were exacerbated by a
fraudulent, retracted study claiming a link between the MMR shot and
autism.
The result? Most states are below the 95% vaccination threshold for
kindergartners — the level needed to protect communities against
measles outbreaks.
“I’m very upset by how cavalier people are being about the measles,”
Tobin said. “I don’t think that they realize how destructive this
is.”
Polio changed a life twice
One of Lora Duguay’s earliest memories is lying in a hospital
isolation ward with her feverish, paralyzed body packed in ice. She
was three years old.
“I could only see my parents through a glass window. They were
crying and I was screaming my head off,” said Duguay, 68. “They told
my parents I would never walk or move again.”
It was 1959 and Duguay, of Clearwater, Florida, had polio. It mostly
preyed on children and was one of the most feared diseases in the
U.S., experts say, causing some terrified parents to keep children
inside and avoid crowds during epidemics.
Given polio's visibility, the vaccine against it was widely and
enthusiastically welcomed. But the early vaccine that Duguay got was
only about 80% to 90% effective. Not enough people were vaccinated
or protected yet to stop the virus from spreading.
Duguay initially defied her doctors. After intensive treatment and
physical therapy, she walked and even ran – albeit with a limp. She
got married, raised a son and worked as a medical transcriptionist.
But in her early 40s, she noticed she couldn’t walk as far as she
used to. A doctor confirmed she was in the early stages of
post-polio syndrome, a neuromuscular disorder that worsens over
time.

One morning, she tried to stand up and couldn’t move her left leg.
After two weeks in a rehab facility, she started painting to stay
busy. Eventually, she joined arts organizations and began showing
and selling her work. Art "gives me a sense of purpose,” she said.
These days, she can't hold up her arms long enough to create big oil
paintings at an easel. So she pulls her wheelchair up to an electric
desk to paint on smaller surfaces like stones and petrified wood.
The disease that changed her life twice is no longer a problem in
the U.S. So many children get the vaccine — which is far more
effective than earlier versions — that it doesn't just protect
individuals but it prevents occasional cases that arrive in the U.S.
from spreading further. “ Herd immunity " keeps everyone safe by
preventing outbreaks that can sicken the vulnerable.
After whooping cough struck, ‘she was gone’
Every night, Katie Van Tornhout rubs a plaster cast of a tiny foot,
a vestige of the daughter she lost to whooping cough at just 37 days
old.
Callie Grace was born on Christmas Eve 2009 after Van Tornhout and
her husband tried five years for a baby. She was six weeks early but
healthy.
“She loved to have her feet rubbed," said the 40-year-old Lakeville,
Indiana mom. "She was this perfect baby.”
When Callie turned a month old, she began to cough, prompting a
visit to the doctor, who didn’t suspect anything serious. By the
following night, Callie was doing worse. They went back.
In the waiting room, she became blue and limp in Van Tornhout’s
arms. The medical team whisked her away and beat lightly on her
back. She took a deep breath and giggled.
Though the giggle was reassuring, the Van Tornhouts went to the ER,
where Callie’s skin turned blue again. For a while, medical
treatment helped. But at one point she started squirming, and
medical staff frantically tried to save her.
“Within minutes,” Van Tornhout said, “she was gone.”
Van Tornhout recalled sitting with her husband and their lifeless
baby for four hours, "just talking to her, thinking about what could
have been.”

Callie’s viewing was held on her original due date – the same day
the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention called to confirm she
had pertussis, or whooping cough. She was too young for the Tdap
vaccine against it and was exposed to someone who hadn’t gotten
their booster shot.
Today, next to the cast of Callie’s foot is an urn with her ashes
and a glass curio cabinet filled with mementos like baby shoes.
“My kids to this day will still look up and say, ‘Hey Callie, how
are you?’” said Van Tornhout, who has four children and a stepson.
“She’s part of all of us every day.”
Van Tornhout now advocates for childhood immunization through the
nonprofit Vaccinate Your Family. She also shares her story with
people she meets, like a pregnant customer who came into the
restaurant her family ran saying she didn’t want to immunize her
baby. She later returned with her vaccinated four-month-old.
“It’s up to us as adults to protect our children – like, that’s what
a parent’s job is,” Van Tornhout said. “I watched my daughter die
from something that was preventable … You don’t want to walk in my
shoes.”
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