2020 Home for the Holidays

2020 Home for the Holidays LINCOLN DAILY NEWS November 25, 2020 Page 15 It seems like we are all in the same ocean, more so than in any other point in our lifetimes. The realities of COVID-19 continue to affect every single person on the planet. But we are all in different boats on this ocean. Keep your eyes open. Watch for your neighbors’ boats, and if you can throw them a line, do it. It might just be your smiley, crinkled eyes above a mask. It might be a wave. It might be a joke or funny story to bring a smile. It might be a hand-written note. It might be a prayer, or a gift card, or a bigger-than- usual tip. And if your own boat is taking on water, don’t be afraid to ask for help. You might think that neighbor’s boat looks as bad as your own or worse, but they may have a friend you don’t know that could help you both. Our family loves to be there for others, but we will hesitate to step in without a clear request. Many other people are the same way, so don’t be afraid to speak up! Also, don’t forget about the advantages of self-care, keeping in mind that there is a difference between activities that let you “zone out” and things that actually bring renewal and energy. There is a place for both (!) Just keep the mind-numbing activities in perspective. Jesus said to love God, love others, and love ourselves. Our family is grateful to live and serve in a community that does all so well.