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- Mary Krallmann


How to solve (some) problems without really trying

Problems, problems. Everyone has problems. By this time in 1492, Columbus had encountered plenty of problems connected with his voyage of discovery and had many more problems ahead. Initially, he dealt with planning and financing an innovative, daring project. Then he had to convince the crews of three ships to keep sailing west when there hadn’t been any land in sight for three weeks. In spite of fighting, shipwreck, spoiled food, arthritis, foul weather and eventual disregard from his backers, he managed to make four trips to a previously unknown land — and back — using primitive navigation methods. Single-minded determination helped, but he must have had a few good problem-solving methods besides.

It's interesting how close he came to not discovering America on that trip we commemorate in early October. On Oct. 10 the group had decided to go on for only three more days before turning back. I suppose Columbus may have had another alternative or two in mind if the time had run out with no land in view, but they did sight land on Oct. 12.

It's an example of one of the simplest problem-solving methods I've run into:  Wait until the problem goes away.

In this case, once the explorers reached land, the problem of failing to reach land was resolved.

Another easy method is this:  State that the problem does not exist.

In earlier times, for example, there was a belief that the world was flat, which would, of course, present a problem at the edge. In fact, it works very well to say that there is no such problem.

In other cases, a given circumstance does exist, but it doesn't have to be treated as a problem. Mother Teresa knew that. She suggested substituting the idea of a gift. I've read that when her companions were upset with delayed flights, for instance, she urged them to regard the situation as a gift of time available for other purposes.

Along life's journey we pick up problem-solving skills from people around us — as positive or negative examples — and from other sources, such as formal training. There are even copyrighted strategies for considering variables and arriving at rational conclusions.

We also learn from experience. In one situation I experienced, I was caught off balance by responses to my complaints about some problems. At first I thought I had encountered a pattern of avoidance:  State that the problem does not exist. Wait for the problem to go away.

So, it came as a surprise when I heard, from someone whose opinion I respected, that the leadership was particularly good at solving problems. I had to reconsider my view. Actually, I had little knowledge of what strategies were used for problems that were actively addressed. What I had seen was mostly related to determining what really needed attention and what didn't.

The more I thought about it, the more I saw how applicable the two simple concepts could be. Saying that it's not really a problem is a legitimate way to handle trivialities. Even the larger difficulties don't have to be framed as problems. They can be challenges, opportunities, temporary inconveniences. After all, earthly life itself is temporary.

Some problems can't be fixed, and waiting them out is part of survival. Other difficulties will eventually resolve themselves without significant intervention. Waiting until a minor problem disappears can at times be a valid way of refocusing attention on more important concerns.

Problem-solving skills of a more complex nature can still be applied when and where needed.

With a little creativity — certainly a basic for handling all kinds of problems — the two simple (or simplistic) methods do hold quite a bit of water. For me, it was worth running into them along the way — much as Columbus bumped into the Americas on his way to the East.

 

[Mary Krallmann]      

 

A site for reference:

http://www.lollie.com/problemsolver.html

 

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