For her, hope comes from the thriving business that employs her mother and 199 other women who sew embroidered clothing, tablecloths and shawls under the label "Kandahar Treasure." They proudly call their collection Kandahar's first designer label.
For women once denied access to both schools and jobs under a fanatical Taliban regime, the enterprise is a chance to earn money and support their families in a conservative part of Afghanistan where it can still be dangerous for women to own businesses or even work for them.
"This country needs people to stand up on their own two feet and work and earn their living," says 33-year-old founder Rangina Hamidi, an Afghan-American who packed up everything and left her home in Stoneridge, Virginia, to return to Kandahar.
Hamidi was born in Kandahar just three years before the Soviet Union invaded Afghanistan in 1979. Her family fled and lived as refugees in neighboring Pakistan before finding refuge in the United States.
Hamidi's first foray back to Kandahar was with a nonprofit group that sought to help women. But eventually she found half her time was spent writing proposals and briefs to get grant money to run the charity.
"I couldn't focus on design or quality," she says. "I got tired of depending on the aid world."
In 2006 and 2007, as security deteriorated, money became more difficult to get. That's when Hamidi decided to go private and launched Kandahar Treasure on a small budget of a few thousand dollars. Today she sells her handmade items in Kandahar, to the Afghan government and for the past three years at the Santa Fe Folk Art Market.
Even now, only 20 of the women Hamidi employs come into the office to work. The rest work out of their homes and live in the districts surrounding Kandahar city, several of them largely under the control of the Taliban and too dangerous to visit these days.
"Instead of me going to the villages, the women now select an old woman who will come into the city with their finished products and return with fresh orders," she says.
The amount of money the women who work at home earn depends on their output, but on average it is about 1,600 Afghanis ($32) a month, says Hamidi. However, most homes will have two or more women sewing for Kandahar Treasure.
The women who come into the center every day earn on average 5,000 Afghanis ($100) a month
- the equivalent or more than a teacher would earn.
Hamidi looks around at the women sitting on the carpeted floor, each creating her own piece of art on a separate swatch of cloth.
Hamidi expected the women to abhor the Taliban. But she found some among her sewing circle longed for their return. Others say disappointment and insecurity have blunted their frustration with the Taliban, whose edicts did not stray too far from restrictions placed today on most women living in deeply rural Afghanistan.